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I just found out about the passing of Professor Graver. He was a memorable member of the Williams faculty for me, but it was more for his personal kindness that I will remember him. In January 1982, during Winter Study, I suddenly lost my mother. It was a chaotic time, and I was gone from school for well over a week. When I got back, it was a very difficult time emotionally. I was going through grief, anger and fear. Fortunately, I was in Larry Graver's Winter Study class on V.S. Naipaul. I was feeling overwhelmed by the shock, but Professor Graver was simply compassionate towards me. He told me to do what I could. He said that he wasn't concerned about me as a student, but about me as a person first. That kindness has always stayed with me. The course ended up being a lot of terrific reading, and even though I didn't read all the assigned books, I remain a fan of Naipaul, but moreso Larry Graver. It isn't an exaggeration to say that he helped me recover from my personal disaster. Professor Graver predicted that Naipaul would one day win the Nobel prize in Literature. He was right. I sent Professor Graver an email after it happened, and simply signed it "a grateful student." I remain that grateful student still. May Professor Graver and his family find peace in his passing. He was a wonderful teacher and healer for me, and I will never forget that. Craig Y. Lee Williams '84 | |
from: Craig Lee | on: 06-26-2010 |
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