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Jesse Boland, 29

NORTH ADAMS, Mass. —  Jesse Adam Boland was born on Sunday, March 20, 1994, the first day of Spring. He was welcomed into the world at 10:20AM by his beautiful mother Michele and adoring older siblings, Becky (Boland) McConnell and Jimmy Boland. His hearty laughter, beautiful blue eyes, giant bear hugs, jokes, and quips (that only Jesse could make) were constants and their absence is a precious reminder that his earthly life was ephemeral.

In the early morning of Wednesday, August 30, 2023, Jesse unexpectedly suffered a brain hemorrhage. Despite the earnest effort of his surgeon, he was unable to recover. Jesse passed away later that evening under the light of a Pisces Blue Moon, his hands held by his family. Also at his bedside were four of his lifelong friends, Dan, Dylan, Steve, and Zach. His family is forever thankful that these wonderful men were able to reminisce over the endless memories they shared with Jesse before saying their goodbyes.

Jesse attended Greylock Elementary School and then Conte Middle School in North Adams, where he would make friends that lasted his entire lifetime. Upon graduating Drury High School in 2012, he continued his education at Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts, earning his Bachelor of Science degree in May 2017. He worked several jobs beginning in high school, from humble beginnings baling hay at Burnetts Farm in Adams to his most recent employment with Berkshire Health Systems. He also helped coach a local Little League team, thoroughly enjoying his work with young children. Wherever Jesse went, he always made friends and left a lasting impression. He could strike up a conversation with anyone and put them at ease. To know him was to love him.

Jesse may have been the baby of the family, but at 63” he could certainly hold his own and never let his older brother Jim forget it! Dirt bike races, athletic fields, concerts, and summer events at the lake were all moments that Jesse cherished growing up. Forever the die hard New England sports fan, he was so appreciative whenever his close friend Dylan invited him along to watch the Pats play at Gillette Stadium.

From an early age, Jesse thoroughly enjoyed good food! He often shared his culinary tastes with his brother-in-law J. At only six-years-old, while most kids were ordering chicken tenders and French fries off the local menus, Jesse would request the baked salmon and vegetables. In middle school, he and his friends once accepted a dare to consume habanero peppers during lunch. Most of those friends were sent home feeling ill, with Jesse barely breaking a sweat! He looked forward to his sisters taco soup every October on Parade Day and never turned down a home-cooked or exotic new meal.

Jesse was preceded in death by his father, Jim Boland, as well as his grandparents, Nicholas and Eileen Grieco, with whom he was extremely close. Besides his mother, two siblings, and brother-in-law, he leaves his best nephew James, beautiful nieces Kenley, Joelle, and Felicity (who fiercely loved their Uncle Jesse), his beloved dog and favorite companion, Daisy, as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Our hearts have a gaping hole where he should be, but we pray that his memory will be kept alive through the countless laughs and stories made in his brief 29 years.

Funeral Notice: Calling hours for Jesse Boland will be Friday, September 15, 2023 from 9-11AM at Flynn & Dagnoli West Chapel, 521 West Main St. North Adams with a graveside service to follow at Southview Cemetery. There will be a luncheon for family and friends upon departure of the cemetery (location to be announced). Donations may be made in Jesses name to the ALC program in Pittsfield (https://alccorp.org) or to the Drury High School Football Team.


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Jesse was a light. Although I saw his struggles in life he was always such a kind soul and so gentle. He is certainly a large character that will be missed from this lifetime.
from: Anonon: 10-10-2023

I was so sorry to hear about Jesse. I've known him since he was young Greylock student. Always liked him and had just seen him recently and had a nice conversation. You are all in myvprayers.
from: Lori parrinoon: 09-14-2023

Micbelle m family. Im so very sorry for the loss of your son!
I remember Jesse from way back when i used to babysit for cheryl.. n saw him not too long ago again at the hospital with micheal..ive always admired the way you mothered your babies michelle.. q1. May ahod comfort you sweetie....
from: Tami Beliveauon: 09-13-2023

Michelle and family, I am so sorry for your loss - I remember Jesse from Greylock Elementary and all of his enthusiasm. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
from: Kathy Gwozdzon: 09-12-2023

Michelle and family, my deepest condolences to all of you. Jesse rest in peace in the home of our lord.
from: Jane Lavigneon: 09-12-2023

Michelle and family I am so sorry for your loss
from: Debra Davison: 09-11-2023

Michelle, Becky and Jimmy, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know you kids mean the world to your mom and I cant imagine the pain you all are feeling. Please know that Jesse will be missed by so many and be sure to keep his memory alive in the eyes of those sweet babies.

Sending all my love
from: Shannon LaFrance Goodellon: 09-11-2023

Michelle, we are all very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. We are sending our condolences and hugs to you and your family.
from: Haskell familyon: 09-11-2023

the eulogy from Joan Thomas says it all. A life taken too soon and the profound effect he had on the lives of so many.
from another Mom
from: anonymous]on: 09-10-2023

Michelle and Family, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are for you all.
God Bless you,
Paula
from: Paula Wright LaBonteon: 09-10-2023

Michelle . Words cannot express how sorry I am for you loss . There's nothing worse then to loose a child. God bless you. Always remember and never forget that he is your angel now, your shinning star. Please keep it together and if you EVER need to talk I'm a phone call away . (413)770-8741. God bless you and your family.
from: Jacqueline cyr Andrewson: 09-10-2023

Becky,
I was so sorry to read of your brother's passing. Although I did not know Jesse, your faith in the Lord's reason for detouring our life's path and destiny will remain a mystery to you and your loved ones. However, in time, you will realize why your brother was taken to his resting place. Your husband and your "girls" will be your source of comfort during this difficult time. Fond memories of Jesse CAN bring smiles and tears. Let your emotions run like a river to bring your thoughts to the ocean where the tides will take them away from the shore to the open water. Tides come and go and so will your emotions. Eventually the water will calm and the waves can bring to you memories when needed. My thoughts and prayers flow to you and your family. In God and with love. Sincerely, Joe
from: Joseph Nowakon: 09-10-2023

I’m so sorry for your loss Michele. I have no words.
from: Kathy Tovani Poiroton: 09-10-2023

He will also be missed by Moresi Company where is also recently worked.
from: R Beckon: 09-09-2023

So sad. Sympathy to all. He was a great kid.
from: Nancy & Bob Waltermireon: 09-09-2023

Michelle and family, I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like he was a very special young man.
from: Therese DiLego Royon: 09-09-2023

Michelle and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember you taking such pride in him as well as his siblings. Praying for all of you during this difficult time.
Mary
from: Mary Gelinas on: 09-09-2023

I'm going to miss seeing your face. I'm glad we got to spend time & talk together the night before. There was a beautiful sunset out back that night as we played ball with Daisy. Forever will you have a spot in my heart kid.
Love you,
Trina
from: on: 09-08-2023

Michele so sorry to hear about your son passing away. I send out my condolences to the whole family. I will keep him in prayer. i will try to make the calling hours. He was such a wonderful person when you introduce him to me. Please give me a call love to hear from you.
from: wendy levesqueon: 09-08-2023

Michelle I am so sorry for your loss I can't even imagine my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
from: Sue perrason: 09-08-2023

RIP Young Man! Thoughts & prayers go out to your family.
from: Anonymouson: 09-08-2023

My brother from another mother. I love you since the second I met you, and told you I remembered you though we never met. Next day you knocked on my door to say you remembered me too. From that moment forth, for the past 10 years I could live joyously knowing you are a few doors down. I'd wake up and you be sleeping on my couch, my pink bubble I would call my home, your fortress of solitude. I love cooking for you, and Michelle because you always clean your plate, then do the dishes me being an Italian raised girl from Brooklyn NY originally, you always keep my heart light cuz God knows you don't come to my house and NOT EAT & go home with extras. When we're not watching Jesus movies, docs, vids, and paranormal shows, and horror flicks, you're checking to make sure I'M OK, and the whole ten years, it's me calling texting, making sure you stop in so I know you're ok. I could've moved twice, but as I wrote in that letter you kept, I could never leave you, so didn't. I thank Jesus every day from that day in the parking lot when you first shook my hand and I told you you were GOLD... YOU'RE HANDS WE'RE GOLD, AND WHETHER YOU BELIEVE ME OR NOT, YOURE A BORN HEALER. It's a heavy job the Lord assigns us from heaven yet we do it His name Joyfully. So blessed to have all that with you...AND THE ORBS THOUGH!! You have around and in you as many as me. You sparkle and glow, which we are both in awe of that which I've come to understand fully now that we are truly made of light. Got the pics and vids to prove it! I love laughing and crying with you, watching orbs, filming you and the orbs and your beautiful smile and eyes. You must know the love I feel for you... this life, past life, every life. You always say I'm not human and you could see my wings, well I see your Halo from the second we met. You are my heart forever. Past present future. How blessed am I that the Lord has given me the gift of you. Did you get my texts I sent you today btw? I know you did because you're sending me 77's everywhere. My life my light is brighter than it's ever been because of your presence on earth and in my life, my heart, my soul. My brother, my angel , My Jesse. Please shine your golden light still in the biggest orb I've ever seen when you're ready. I know you're with me and that is forever ?? as my heart is light and full of gratitude, for you. Forever. I love you I love you I love you, always. My heart heart you are and forever will be as it was, as it is right now, because I know you're love is just as strong as mine for you, right here right now, with me. I love you ????.
from: Joan Thomas on: 09-08-2023

Jesse, our family misses you more than you’ll ever know. Much love to Michelle and Jesse’s other family.
from: Epiphany Thomason: 09-08-2023

It's a mysterious world! Jim may peace be with you and your family at this difficult time.
from: Larry Dragonon: 09-08-2023

Michelle and family, I have no words. Jesse was like a son to me on and off the field. Watching #77 bowl boys or watching him play 1st base are moments I will never forget. He would come and hug me after football games and was careful not to crush me with his big shoulder pads. Team dinners were always a treat. Our love hate relationship between the Patriots and Bills gave us plenty to talk about. I will never forget that voice or that smile. RIP Jesse. I will always love you.
from: Mama Rancourton: 09-08-2023

I will miss this smiling face. He was the sweetest, most respectful young man. What a great loss.
from: Kathleen Rowetton: 09-08-2023

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